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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

R...r...r....


I was at the restaurant (owned by very sweet and nice Koreans)
that's next door to my workplace and I found this sign.
If you say the word "tortirinni" out loud, you will most definitely giggle...
I guarantee it!
The employees at the place are so adorable and kind to me every time I'm over there. This sign just makes me smile even more when I think of the place!


Bored... need some cuteness





What a blah Tuesday... Needed some cute little fuzzies to brighten my day!!!
A pug, kangaroo, and some hamsters to bring some "oooohs" and "ahhhhs".

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Dear Sir,

Dear Mr. Unitas,

I am a 28-year-old, professional, Korean-American woman who feels she has been discriminated against by a traffic safety officer. T his is after 12 years of working/commuting in Baltimore City, without incident.

I regret to inform you that I had a very unpleasant experience with Officer Wilkens, a crossing guard/traffic enforcement officer on the afternoon of December 2, 2009 at 12:45PM at the intersection of Baltimore Street and Calvert Street. I was told that you would be able to help me and address my concerns regarding this matter.

I was walking westbound on Baltimore Street (on the right side) and was crossing over Calvert Street to continue walking westbound on Baltimore Street. While I was in the middle of the intersection, the crosswalk light changed from the white "WALK" icon to the flashing red “STOP” icon. As this happened and while I was in the middle of the intersection, the traffic officer at that intersection pointed directly at me and yelled "Don't you understand?! That means stop walking!!!" I believed that she was telling me to hasten my pace to get out of the intersection, but as I continued to walk, she again yelled and whistled at me, telling me to stop where I was. Other people walking within the same walkway continued on while I was stopped by Officer Wilkens. She ordered me stop (alone) in the middle of the intersection, in the street, while the traffic facing me (moving eastbound on Baltimore Street) made left turns on red, and crossed my path (some cars swerved to avoid hitting me). As I stood in the middle of the street, the flashing red "STOP" hand changed to a solid red "STOP" hand. She motioned for the traffic on Calvert Street to proceed and I scrambled to get out of the intersection and out of the way of traffic approaching from Calvert Street.

I left the intersection feeling that being made to stand in the middle of the intersection was not only very dangerous but extremely humiliating as the whistling/yelling caught attention of people passing by. I finished my quick dash to the bank and when I crossed through that intersection again, I politely asked the officer (verbatim), “Excuse me Officer, Doesn’t a flashing red signal, while a person is in the middle of a crosswalk, serve as warning sign to finish crossing? I didn’t think it meant for that person to stop in the middle of the intersection. Please let me know if I’m wrong.” The traffic guard told me very rudely, “Don’t you tell me how to do my job!” I told her that I was asking for future reference – maybe my knowledge was wrong and she could clarify/correct me. She again said I was "telling her how to do her job" and that I "didn’t know what I was talking about". I reiterate the fact that I was polite and calm the entire time I spoke with her – no accusations, no pointing fingers. I, myself was willing to accept the blame for any traffic signal ignorance! (I cross the same intersection every day usually en route to my company’s bank and I did not want to commit this type of faux pas again.)

Matters were aggravated when she muttered a racial slur under her breath while I stood there (something along the lines of ‘chink.’) This gave me no choice but to ask for her name, which she readily declared as "Officer Wilkens". She then started joking with a passerby about me “not understanding things” while I was standing right next to her.

I was adopted from Korea when I was 11 months old by a Caucasian couple. While I (sadly) do not speak my native language, Korean, I have excelled in subjects such as English and Literature throughout my elementary, middle, high school and college "career". It is very offensive to me that Officer Wilkens felt that she could be so rude and disrespectful to me today. I'm not sure if she believed that I did not understand what she was saying or if she was under the impression that what she was saying was acceptable. While I am used to the occasional joke, chuckle or inappropriate comment regarding my race, this is the most blatant act of racism I have ever witnessed towards me!

I have been in and around Baltimore City all of my life and this situation changed how I view this great city. As we struggle to control crime and attract tourism, I worry about how situations like mine may affect people visiting from other towns, states, and countries. I am saddened very much by these events. On a daily basis, I work with the Baltimore City Police Department, the Department of General Services, the Planning Department and other factions of the city without incident. I have had very good experiences with all of Baltimore City’s personnel, but this situation has very much soured my view of the city.


Police officers are trained "To Protect and To Serve," but I don't feel like I was protected while standing in the middle of a busy intersection in lunch-hour traffic. I don't feel that anything positive was accomplished by me being publicly ridiculed in front of others while trying to cross the street.

I apologize for the lengthy complaint, but I do not want anyone else to have to experience such a negative event. I am incredibly hurt and angry about this situation. I would appreciate immediate feedback from you.

Thank you very much for your time and you assistance with this matter.

Friday, November 20, 2009

funny stuff for a slow Friday

Most of this stuff is common knowledge,
but what a cute little article.
Actually, the whole website is pretty cute too!
Happy Friday to all!
http://theoatmeal.com/comics/cat_know

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

approaching...

The holidays are fast approaching and I have that lovely feeling of dread in my stomach... Both Billy and I have made it clear that we're limiting the amount of gift-buying/giving so that will hopefully help with the stress level a teensy, tiny bit. ESPECIALLY with this shitty economic year, it is even MORE STUPID to waste money on things that people really don't need. I certainly don't need people to waste money on me! I cringe when I hear people talk about Black Friday ads... They're all talking about shit they really didn't need before, JUST BECAUSE some circular is telling them they need it now.
Day by day... Thanksgiving and then Christmas... We'll make it though this alive!

Friday, November 6, 2009

an idea


I think we need to invest in a robot.
We can stop hiring people that ask the same questions over and over and over again. It's not any particular person's fault, the place is just not right for everyone.
Maybe a Hello Kitty Robot... How cute would it be to watch her make signs?!

Friday, September 25, 2009

a need to vent

There's the person that's been working with us and he drives me CRAZY. I don't think I've ever met anyone who can push my buttons as much as he does - even when he's not doing ANYTHING. This post is most definitely unfair to him, but I'm pretty sure he's never going to see it and I need to get this out because otherwise the wave of bitchiness I've directed at him is going to get worse... Like Un-PC worse... Like Kinkos worse...

The lack of common sense shown by this individual is unbelievable. Apparently he lived with a huge mold/mildew issue in his apartment for a YEAR with his girlfriend and 2 MONTH OLD BABY. This is something the city will actually take seriously. But did he escalate the issue to the correct authorities? NO. He lived with it for a year and when he and his family moved, everyone got sick from the mold they rustled up while moving (including the people helping him move). Even the newborn was sick with a 105+ fever. After this incident, the whole white trash family went to get flu shots which he swore to me were H1N1 shots... Unless you're living on the moon, most everyone knows the FDA JUST approved the swine flu vaccine and it will be available in October. If someone's going to be injecting ANYTHING into my bloodstream, I better know what the fuck it is first. Don't even think about injecting something into my family, pets, etc. without educating me about it beforehand. It ended up being thamaflu. He's lucky it wasn't heroin - it is Baltimore after all.

There's a ton of stupid mistakes made EVERYDAY. It's boring to go into details, but trust me, you'd be as pissed as I am if you worked here for a DAY. Simple details that are written clearly and highlighted are overlooked on a constant basis.

He doesn't ask for help. He'll stare at the object giving him issues for minutes upon minutes as if the problem will miraculously fix itself or as if some magic gnome's going to come out and give him an answer.

EVERYTHING he touches breaks. It's quite a feat to observe. The vacuum shorts out when he uses it (which he drags out at least 3 times a day because he isn't creative with coming up with new ways to stay busy when it's slow). All of us others have used it with no issues. I had to go purchase a new saw blade b/c he swore up and down the one we had was dull... It turned out he just doesn't know how to properly hold/operate a saw. He somehow jammed a pole into a customer's banner stand that refused to come out. My boss was going to kill him that day especially since it was friend of his banner stand. He can't even change a box cutter blade without issues.
He cut his finger on a blade and had A STITCH to close up the wound... He missed 2 days of work for it. I have a high pain tolerance, but REALLY? SERIOUSLY? Luckily he doesn't drive - Everyone's safer on the roads!

He's short and scrawny and weak which makes cutting substrate straight IMPOSSIBLE. I'm a 5'3" 105lb munchkin and I can accomplish such tasks!!! Don't ask him to cut straight lines or right angled corners.... Never going to happen. He walks like a dope. Stands like a dope. Talks like a dope. I can't stand to even look at the dumbass loser. I'm so glad his days are numbered. The amount of waste and redos he's generated is ridiculous!!!

Ahhhh... That was a nice lunch vent session. Time to get back to work and get the fuck outta here! It's Friday, bitches!